Services
Melissa is a unique and diversified ho
listic practitioner, who’s experience as a Relationship Counsellor and Coach is evident in her results based therapy. Every relationship goes through stages of growth, not only as individuals, but as a couple. It is important that we learn to grow together as a couple whilst still maintaining our own sense of self. When the emotional and physical needs are not being met in the relationship, it is very easy for us to feel unloved and unsupported. This breeds any insecurities we have, that fuel unhealthy habits and behaviours that we project into the relationship and ultimately onto our partners.
If you are experiencing disharmony in the relationship you share, there are several stages you may relate to;
The Expectation Phase – You have become disconnected, time poor, always tired, distractions, no fun, loss of identity, always giving not receiving, nagging.
The Denial Phase – You both feel you cannot do anything right, you begin trading off, you feel you have nothing left to give, you are cursing, you have thoughts of leaving.
The Blame Phase – You withhold physically & emotionally, you keep score, you are resentful, you have flirted with idea of someone else, you have become emotionally abusive and or physically, you feel your partner owes you something.
The Alone Phase – Helplessness, physically sick, financially pressured, depressed, you existing not living, you have completely disconnected from your partner and family, you are scared and confused, lonely and sad.
Too often, I see couples that have left getting professional support, too late. The reality is, unless you grew up with wonderful, open parents that educated you on how to have a great relationship or taught you how to be intimate with your partner, you are like a lot of the population and learnt from every past relationship you have ever had. Which means you also brought along your baggage too.
Relationships are not difficult, it is our conditioning, behaviours and habits that make them that way.
If you and your partner can identify with any of the above phases, don’t leave it till it is too late. Let me help you get your relationship where you both want it to be. Let me teach you both a new way of loving and understanding each other.
If you are both committed to transforming your relationship, then I can help you. Please look through the additional service information and contact me directly for any questions you have.
Contact
Contact Mel Cooper
Phone: 0404 016 969
Or Contact via the form in the contact page.
“Melissa’s coaching was an incredible tool that assisted both of us in creating a fulfilling relationship and we decided that the risk of not trying to improve, enhance or even rescue the bond we shared was far greater than we could have ever imagined. We owed it to ourselves and our family and I know what it did for me and I am a better person for it. Thank you!” BJ-Sydney
“We thought we had damaged our relationship beyond repair not connected, lots of jealousy and anger, separate lives, even the location of where we lived was an issue, feeling isolated and without a life, with no support system for our children, and we weren’t communicating. From this we moved into a calmness and understanding, which made us feel important and validated, we acknowledged our different feelings and emotions which made us realise that there was another point of view to some of our preconceived ideas. Melissa opened our minds, we saw how our past was still effecting our present, saw how our efforts had previously been misplaced and now thet vicious circle has been broken, communication resumed with new levels of intimacy and deeper communication not experienced before Thank you Mel, it would have never happened without you.” Paula and Steve
